Wazirabad is where my family settled, and I still cook my mother's rajma every Sunday. I took charge of my own life a few years ago, and I have been happy ever since.

I laugh loudly, hug quickly and I am honestly a little nosy about people's stories. I love a hearty meal, a long drive and a good bhangra beat when the mood lifts.

If you are after friendly, cheerful company for a dinner or a quiet night out, I would be glad to meet you. We will find something to laugh about before the first course arrives. My friends say I have never met a stranger, only people I have not hugged yet, and I think that is a lovely way to spend an evening, honestly.